Learn This Life

In any condition, how dark it is, don't ever give up at all.. Because an expectation appear from despairing. How we can learn to get up if we never fall down. We have to made one condition how bitter it is become a lesson, because we will get suffer a loss if we go through without pluck a precious lesson from it. We can't measure the highness of the sky, the depth of the sea.. How we know about the fate? We know nothing, that's why we should learn..

Life And Death..

Life doesn't come from anywhere or go anywhere, it just go around with all other lives, it is a part of a great wheel. Death is not a destination, death is a part of our life. We live not to death, we will die, but not our self. When we death it is a new beginning for our self. Death is a complement in our life.

Rectoverso

Today we will talk about Recto verso. Recto verso is a painting that fill in each other between front side and back side, like a painting icon at the paper money. Our partial perspective will never see that our self is a Recto verso. Too many humans spent their life in an emptiness as if there is something lost from their self and never know what is that. Then they looking and looking.. Out from their substance.. and they lost. With many kind of way, they trying to definition this "something" lost. Most of them think this "something" has to be somewhere out there. Human designed to do one mission: Find Out The Human Source. Then what about if what we lookin' for is not out there. What we thought as incomplete actually is a Recto verso. In the idea that we don't have to go anywhere. To feel complete we just need to change our perspective. When we succeed to take a distance from seeds that crumbled inside our mind, Recto verso will showing up. What we looking for is very close, you just have to see it from different way. Stop feeling empty, stop asking to be completed, stop yelling to something out there, stop act like a fish in the pond but looking for water. Everything you need is available on your self. No other one could completed up something that already complete. Just your willingness to become aware. We never had anything, just our own self, so that we never lost something. Our self bigger than what we thought if we not bind it to something.

Ego and Soul

So let's talk about those two concepts, those roles. These are all constructs, concepts, we're making them up. There are no tangible, measurable boundaries structures here. But for practical reasons, these are ideas, mythic ideas, that in this day and age, and for a growing number of people, they work--these are effective. People generally know what you're talking about, and more, most folks seem to like it.
Your ego-self, that's your everyday sense of who you are. The soul is a role. The soul is a role. That's the role of the source of your imagery, your temperament, your individuality, your telic preferences, your creative inspirations, your aspirations.

Your ego-self is the mediator between your soul and the world. You are a team, your soul can't manifest without you. However, your ego-self can for a while, at least, dominate, out-talk, talk louder than, repress, and even forget the soul. It's a still, small, voice, as the prophet Isaiah called it. But in the long run, the yearnings of the soul will be expressed somehow, in psychosomatic illness, in slips of tongue and mind, in acts of self-sabotage or impassivity or compulsions. Much emotional and even social disorder may be attributed to or formulated in terms of a disharmony between the needs of soul and the petty efforts at self-control of the ego.

So the game of healing is to align these two roles, to recognize what each does best and to stop trying to substitute one for the other. Now we don't teach this skill in school, and it so far hasn't been widely taught even in the field of psychotherapy. How to serve your soul. You do need to serve it, you know, because it's already doing all it can for you. It never lets up, it may be suppressed, but it's always there. You can lose touch with it, but you can't lose it.

This Life..

There are too many misery in this life.. Sometimes we don't have to understand, we just have to know. Too many questions in this life unanswered, started from one "what" become million "why". We don't have to think about anything, anything will come by it self to us. Don't be sorry to our self, we don't need that. Our self is everything. We can choose what we want to be, we can be a God or Evil. Our life just like a boat, and we are the skipper, the crew are people arround us and life it self is the sea. We brought it anywhere according to us, we controlled it. Sometimes wind and wave spring on our ship, we just need to believe there is no storm or hurricane lasting forever, they must stop, Everything hang on us, our strength, skill, faithfull, and courage, if we can't pass it we wreck our ship, if we can pass it, we survive. And sometimes we have the rowdy crew, we just have to decide we want to throw them from the ship or we want to lead them. Do not think too much, Make your life simple as you can.

For You..

• Giving all your love to someone is not a guarantee that he/she will show you a gratitude, don't even hope for it.. Wait until love growth on her/his heart.. but if not.. be happy because love growth on your heart.
• There is a thing that you really want to hear it but you will never heard from someone that you expect to say. Not will standing, never deafened your ears to hear from the people who said it with the whole of his/her heart.
• Never say goodbye if you still want to meet.. Never give up if you still take it.. Never ever say that you don't love him/her anymore if you still can't forget about him/her.
• The most sadness thing in life is when you meet someone who really important for you and get it that not such a manner at last and you have to let it go.
• It's really painful to love someone who doesn't love you but it's more painful when you love someone and never had a courage to tell him/her.
• Only need a minute to want someone, a hour to like someone, a day tom love someone, but need a whole life time to forget someone.
• I hope you have got enough happiness to make you kindly, enough of attempt to make you strong, enough of sadness to make you humanity, enough of hope to make you happy and enough of money to buy some present.
• When one happiness door get closed, other door has opened, but we often get silenced too long to the closed door so that we never look to the door that opened to us.
• Good friend is a friend who can sitting and sway with you on the balcony without say a word and you can left him with a feeling that you talked much wit him.
• It's really true that we never know what we had until we lost it.. But it also true that we never know what we don't have until we got it.
• Most of happiest people not always have the best thing.. They just trying to make all the things in their life be the best thing.
• Be your self a honest one, and you'll be sure that one of the scoundrel in this world decreased one.
• The 99's answer from 100 questions is money.
• People who don't want to think is lazy.. who can't think is a dumb and unbrave to think is a slave.
• If you get suffer.. Thank God.. it's mean that you alive.

Reality Of Life..

There is no beginning and ending. There is no cause and effect. There is no space and epoch. There is only to be.. Keep moving, expansion, evolution, hope the conclusion for nonsense because there is no conclusion in this life. But people only can be glorious in the middle of unconclusion. There is no regularly because it came from the great irregularity.